Surgery or Not!!

So Mya's 2 year check up went well, We had an appointment with the ENT on Monday and they caught me totally off guard. They want to put tubes in her ears and they didn't even remove the rock they said they will wait until surgery. I have been upset and not sure what to do. We do have her scheduled for surgery on Wednesday the 11th but also have decide to go and get a 2nd opinion. Mya has had 2 year infections in 2 years (which is not bad) we just have the problem of her sticking things in here ear. The doctor we saw only saw her this once for 5 minutes and no other doctor has commented about having fluid in her ears. So surgery or Not? I guess we will wait until we get the 2nd opinion and then make a decision. Angie